We tried discussing his list a few times, but it only ended in arguments. So how do we approach saving a relationship with someone who has unrealistic expectations of what a long-term relationship looks like. I had told him that if he hadn't changed jobs, that I wouldn't have left him but that our relationship would probably become irreparable. Righteous love does conquer all but in some cases it takes a lot longer than we are willing to wait. Among Mormons, 25 is practically an old maid. If a direct contact is simply not possible given the residency schedule, then how about a bedtime phone call. Congratulations on understanding that and avoiding problems.
Hi I am married to a doctor and I am alone most of the time. I would never convert. She never mentioned TSCC. He's just not that into you. I felt her fear, everything she's said, I said.
If this is someone you are to marry, then the rest will take care of itself. If you decide to stay. This does not mean that you cannot do those things, but remember that she will not be able to do them with you. We still hadn't had the "are we official.
Tough to say what will impact your girl most - but there's your best LDS. Breaking up with someone solely because of religion is something people condemn alot on this sub when its a Mormon breaking it off with a non Mormon, but if floats both ways. I would not want my children raised Mormon which she seems intent on. Disney gives them the fantasy where they can easily achieve a standard of perfection with low risk. If you and she are sealed in a Mormon temple, your children will be can be sealed to you. But you are setting yourself up to leave the Church more easily, and even if you agree the children will be raised Mormon, your kids will likely not continue to participate in the Church as adults.